WHEN TO FORGIVE – Buttons are ready   10 comments

A brilliant guru at Joyful Computing has figured out how to place “buttons” by means of which one can order my books from my blog. Actually, it’s not a button that one clicks on, but a photo of the book included to the left of the post (not the photo in the header). Starting with today’s entry, I’d like to highlight each of my available books, one post at a time.

During my final years on the faculty of Southern Connecticut State University my special area was the Psychology of Women. I’ll talk about that influence in a subsequent blog on “Mrs. Job.” But today it’s “When to Forgive.”

Happily when I retired from SCSU I was in a position to work on another area of professional interest – the Psychology of Forgiveness. The result of that focus was “When to Forgive,” today’s topic.

Not the newest of my books, I’ll alert you up front that it is the most expensive, the price being set by the publisher, New Harbinger. It has been around long enough to move from a price tag of $13.95 to $16.95. (oops! amazon.com is offering a discounted price of $14.34. If you’d like a signed copy from me at that price, please contact me via the e-mail button below the button photos.)

There has also been time for it to accumulate some comments in addition to those offered at the time of its publication. For example the following, which I have been given permission to quote:

Written just for me! Thank you Dr. Affinito. Your book on forgiveness must have been written just for me. After reading just the first chapter, I realized just how much I have been punishing myself with my need to immediately forgive others. Now I realize that I need to go through the process, just like mourning. I went out and purchased a journal and gave myself permission to take the time and energy necessary to understand why I felt the way I do and to discern what I want to happen in the end. I’m buying this book for many of my friends and my wife is already anxious to take my copy – but I think I’ll buy her a copy of her own. Just a great resource to reflect and go back to time and time again”

As for comments at the time of publication, I’m posting a link to the amazon.com back page. You’ll find reader reviews there too.

I believe what sets “When to Forgive” apart from other forgiveness books is just what the comment above implies. It isn’t a “You must forgive” argument. It is, rather, a guide to making the reader’s own decision about whether to forgive, and how. It is also unique in providing a definition of forgiveness. It might not be the definition on which everyone would agree, but for one who works through this book it provides clarity of meaning and goal.

In the process of writing it I sought out, and sometimes just happened to discover, stories of forgiveness of all kinds of offenses. Many of them are provided as examples.

I hope this helps you decide whether you want to click on the “When to Forgive” photo to order a copy.

This would also be a great opportunity to comment on your own experiences with forgiving — or deciding not to.

In my next post I’ll give details on “Forgiving One Page at a Time.”

10 responses to “WHEN TO FORGIVE – Buttons are ready

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  1. I am so happy and excited for you!! Congratulations!

  2. I had asked you earlier if you were Forgiveness_________ who visited my book purchase place? I need to know who I am sending it to

    • Yes, I am Forgiveness Options. Sorry for the delay in answering. I didn’t notice this comment until I went to enter the information on “Forgiving One Page at a Time.”

      • I have the book all sealed and ready to mail out. After I finished getting all the books ready I got a vision. I asked myself, did I put my name on it? I signed it but did I add my name. If you get it and it isn’t signed, let me know and I will send you another one. I would have opened it but I don’t have any more packaging envelopes right now and am mailing them out tomorrow

      • I am happy to see that you refer to “all the books.” I guess that means you have had a good response. As for the signature, please don’t feel you need to send a replacement if you forgot to sign it. What really matters is the book. I’ll let you know, though, after I receive it.

  3. Thanks. And I look forward to reading your book when it arrives.

  4. yes! I did it too, it feels SOOO good to have my books on my blogs!
    People , if you haven’t bought Mona’s great books already, run and buy!

  5. That’s great. I must tell you what I thought when I read your title though. I honestly thought it was a play on words, and that you were going to write about an imaginary button that you could press when you felt that you were ready to forgive someone lol
    I know. My mind is such a worry at times.

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